Lessons from Dr. Asha Chopra
January 02, 2013
-Karthik Gurumurthy
Last year 2012 was a tough year for me. I lost three people who were very attached to me and and my family (to cancer and myocardial infarction).
One of them was Dr. Asha Chopra. Dr. Asha came to this country about three decades back and really worked hard, graduated top of the class in Medical school and worked in Medical Practice for more than a decade. Then she also finished her MBA from a premier business school and worked in Medical Management. She was a Management director of an elite medical organization when she was diagnosed with cancer. She fought the battle successful for two years and it looked as if she had won until cancer showed its evil side. Despite what she went through, she was one person who was absolutely optimistic and she knew how to shine light on other people. I knew her through a business opportunity where it gave me a chance to know her closely and I learned a lot from her and we all miss her dearly.
If I have to summarize what I learned from her, it would be as follows:
- The only difference between you and the people who accomplish lot of great successes is the way they think and act.
- You can never be too generous. Give to other- and then give some more!
- Always be asking yourself, "What is important now? What is next?"
- Make today count. Live it like it is your last. Every second counts.
- Assume "YOU" are the problem. When you start doing that, you quit becoming the victim of circumstances and begin shaping the outcome.
- Embrace rejections. Every nos gets you closer to a yes.
- In the race towards success, you never really cross the finish line. Finishing one goal, performing at a big show, creating a record isn't the finish line. It is the preparation to new starting line.
- Play all-out. Give it everything you have and hold nothing in reserve.
Thanks Dr. Asha for teaching these valuable lessons. We all miss you dearly. Thanks for making this world a better place to live.
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