Mentor
January 03, 2015
-Karthik Gurumurthy
You know what blew my mind? Being a mentor! I thought it'd be just another work thing, but man, was I wrong. Sure, I've seen my share of projects go down in flames, but what really sticks with me is helping people get back on their feet when they've hit rock bottom. It's wild - one day you're just giving advice, and before you know it, you're their go-to person for pretty much everything!
So what makes a real mentor? They're like that friend who knows all your embarrassing stories but still thinks you're awesome. They see past your "Instagram-perfect" self to the real you - messy parts and all!
Sometimes they're your personal cheerleader, giving you that little nudge (or maybe a good kick in the pants!) when you need it. Other times, they're like your life GPS, helping you figure out where you're headed when you're totally lost.
The cool thing about a great mentor is they let you be your weird, wonderful self. They're not trying to turn you into some perfect robot - they just want to help you be a better version of you. When you're stuck in your comfort zone (you know, that cozy rut we all fall into), they're the ones poking you with a stick saying, "Hey, there's cooler stuff out there!"
And get this - they're not just thinking about your current job. They're playing chess while everyone else is playing checkers, helping you see where you could be in five years. When everything's falling apart and you're ready to throw in the towel, they're the voice of reason saying, "You've got this!"
Looking back, if I could tell my younger self one thing, it wouldn't be "chase the money" or "get that fancy title." It'd be "find someone who actually gives a damn about your growth." That's the real gold right there!
Comments