Nothing to Hide: Finding Freedom Through Openness
January 04, 2018
-Karthik Gurumurthy
I've noticed how keeping secrets is basically the same as keeping myself stuck. All those stuffed-down feelings and thoughts I don't share? They actually limit who I can become. But when I let people really see me - the real, unfiltered version - that's when I find more opportunities to grow and be happy. Those secrets I keep are like carrying around extra weight that I don't need.
Sure, it's totally my choice whether to put up walls around my inner self. Being vulnerable is scary stuff - it takes guts and strength to open up. And yeah, there's always that risk that someone might betray my trust. But one thing's for certain: the words and thoughts I keep hidden end up haunting me way more than sharing them ever could.
I've experienced that amazing gift that comes with being totally honest and open - this deep connection with others that's almost impossible to describe. It's the kind of friendship that makes all my self-doubts fade away. There's this incredible feeling when that happens - suddenly everything, even the hard stuff, becomes an opportunity for finding more happiness.
I might feel tempted to keep some things to myself today. But I'm going to try to remember that sharing these secrets will actually free me from burdens that are weighing me down.
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