551 posts categorized "Achievers"

Effective Leader-Learning

-Karthik Gurumurthy

I've come to believe that being an effective leader means becoming a lifelong student of the world around me. My mind can't afford to be cluttered with assumptions or outdated thinking—it needs to be constantly sharpened through study and reflection.

I remember when I took over leading the New Product launch in Allergan . I  could have relied on what had worked for me before, but instead, I set up weekly coffee chats with team members to understand the challenges they were facing. That learning period helped me make decisions that actually addressed our real problems, not the ones I assumed existed.

Napoleon once said, "Nothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide." If decision-making is that valuable, then the learning that comes before those decisions must be even more crucial. Looking back at my career, the best opportunities I seized weren't just lucky breaks—they were moments where I'd done enough homework to recognize why they were right for my situation.

My most humbling experiences have taught me that real learning starts with admitting how much I don't know. Last year I had a major issue during the audit because I hadn't been humble enough to listen to customer feedback that contradicted my vision. That painful lesson showed me that an arrogant mind that rejects new ideas is setting itself up for failure.

With information coming at us from all directions, I've learned to be selective but absorbent—like a sponge that filters what it takes in. When I joined my current team, I had to quickly learn an entirely new industry to maintain credibility with my team. But the best leadership lesson I've learned is recognizing the limits of what I can know. Sometimes the strongest leadership move is trusting my team's expertise in areas where my knowledge falls short.

My journey has shown me that letting go of ego isn't just about being open to learning—it's about acknowledging what I cannot learn and need to delegate. That balance between continuous personal growth and trusting my team has been the key to moving forward effectively.


Earning your luck

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Lot of people think of luck as an opportunity that lands in our lap - but what we do with that opportunity is what truly matters.

For example, someone gets introduced to an influential person at a random networking event (initial luck). They could either let that connection fade, or they could follow up thoughtfully, provide value to that relationship, and turn it into a meaningful professional partnership. Those who "earn" this luck often send relevant articles to their new contact, offer to help with projects, and maintain genuine communication.

Another example is receiving an unexpected job interview through a friend's recommendation. The initial luck is getting the interview, but earning it means thoroughly preparing for the interview, researching the company extensively, and then working diligently once hired to prove the recommendation was warranted.

Think of a musician who gets a viral moment on social media. That's the initial luck - but turning that viral moment into a sustainable career requires consistent content creation, engaging with fans, and continuously improving their craft. Many viral sensations fade away, while others "earn" their lucky break through dedication.

There's also everyday luck, like having good health. We can earn this luck by maintaining healthy habits, regular exercise, and proper nutrition - or we can take it for granted and potentially lose it.

The key principle is that initial luck opens a door, but it's our subsequent actions that determine whether we walk through that door and make something meaningful of the opportunity. This perspective invites me to ask myself: How am I honoring the advantages I've been given? Am I using my own "grace" - whatever form it takes - to create value for others? It's not about feeling guilty for our advantages or resentful of our disadvantages, but about recognizing that the true measure of our worth lies in what we do with whatever circumstances we've been given.

Even in everyday situations - maybe you stumbled upon a useful professional connection through a chance meeting. Humility is understanding "I didn't strategically orchestrate this meeting - it was random luck." But action is following through, being reliable, adding value to the relationship, and building something meaningful from that initial lucky encounter.

The power lies in this dual recognition: we can simultaneously acknowledge the role of chance in our lives (keeping us humble) while also taking full responsibility for what we do with our circumstances (spurring us to action). It's about saying "I may not have chosen my starting point, but I can choose what I do from here."


Whatever you focus, grows!

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Hey, want to unlock your hidden superpowers? Here's the deal: we've all got this massive reservoir of potential just waiting to be tapped into. Let me break down some cool ways to make that happen!

  • First up, you need a game plan. Napoleon Hill (after hanging out with America's richest folks) figured out that having a clear purpose is like rocket fuel for success. So grab a journal and map out your future - not just those "New Year, New Me" resolutions that fizzle out by February, but a real vision that gets you fired up!
  • Keep that brain of yours in learning mode. Think of yourself as an "infinite learner" (cool term from Reid Hoffman). Read everything you can get your hands on, listen to podcasts, follow the experts in your field. And here's a pro tip: read stuff outside your comfort zone too - you never know where that next brilliant idea might come from!
  • Take care of that body! Even a 30-minute walk can get those happy chemicals flowing and boost your brain power. It's not about New Year's resolutions; it's about making it part of your everyday life.
  • Here's something people often forget: celebrate your wins, no matter how small! Don't wait for others to pat you on the back - be your own cheerleader. And speaking of positivity, practice gratitude. You can chase your dreams while still appreciating what you've got right now.
  • Time management? It's really about managing yourself. There are 168 hours in a week for everyone - even Beyoncé! It's what you do with them that counts. Focus on today's tasks instead of getting overwhelmed by the big picture.
  • Fear's totally normal (even Mark Twain worried about stuff that never happened), but don't let it stop you. And remember to take breaks - sometimes your best ideas come when you're just chilling out.
  • Define success your way - don't let society do it for you. And hey, stop comparing yourself to others - you're running your own race! As someone wise once said, "There's nothing noble in being superior to others. True nobility is being superior to your former self."
  • Bottom line? Your life matters, and you can be great at whatever lights you up. Just figure out what you want your life to stand for - that's something only you can decide. Make it personal, make it meaningful, and go for it!

Sanjay Subrahmanyan concert

-Karthik Gurumurthy
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Since way back in the 1990s, I have been following amazing classical Indian musician named Sanjay Subrahmanyan who's been capturing hearts left and right. What makes him special? Well, even though he's deeply rooted in traditional music, he's got this incredible knack for finding fresh, exciting ways to present every song and raga he performs.
 
Think of him as a musical archaeologist - he's always digging up hidden gems! He discovers these beautiful, forgotten compositions from various composers and brings them back to life. Sometimes, he even takes these lost pieces and adds his own musical magic to them. And when it comes to Tamil songs? Oh boy, he absolutely loves performing them - whether they're famous classics or rare treasures - and Tamil language enthusiasts just can't get enough!

Congratulations, Gukesh

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Talk about keeping your cool! When D Gukesh won the World Chess Championship, his reaction was pretty amazing to watch. Instead of going wild, this is what he did:
 
First, he just sat there, taking it all in. Let some tears flow (hey, who wouldn't?), and then - get this - he actually took the time to put all the chess pieces back in place! He even gave a little bow to the board before getting up. Only then did he let himself celebrate with the crowd.
 
At the press conference? Total class act. He couldn't stop praising his opponent and even said, "Look, just because I won doesn't mean I'm the best - that's still Magnus Carlsen." How humble is that?
 
The really cool part? This kid knew what he wanted way back when he was 11, straight-up saying he wanted to be the youngest chess champ in the world. Now at 18, he's proving that Gen Z isn't just about social media drama and mental health struggles.
 
He's got this vibe that reminds people of legends like Rahul Dravid and Viswanathan Anand - you know, that quiet confidence and solid values. It's like he's figured out this perfect balance: dreaming super big while keeping his feet firmly on the ground.
 
Pretty refreshing to see a young champ handle success with such grace, right??

The True Secret Behind Excellence: It's Not Luck, It's Deliberate Practice

-Karthik Gurumurthy

You know how we often look at superstars like Joe Root consistently scoring centuries in Tests on the cricket field, Novak Djokovic dominating tennis, or Elon Musk revolutionizing industries, and think, "Man, they're just naturally gifted"? Well, here's the fascinating truth: it's not just about being born lucky or talented.

There was this brilliant researcher named Anders Ericsson who discovered something amazing - it typically takes about 10 years or 10,000 hours of what he called "deliberate practice" to become truly exceptional at something. Malcolm Gladwell actually wrote about this in his book "Outliers," showing how this pattern keeps popping up among top performers. Though it's not just about hitting that magic number - there are other factors too.

But here's why this is such great news: it means success isn't some exclusive club for the naturally gifted! Think about it - we're living in an age where we have more access to information than ever before. Our grandparents would have given anything for the resources we can access with just a few clicks!

Want to know what this "deliberate practice" looks like in real life? Take Michael Phelps' story - it'll blow your mind. While other swimmers were taking it easy after the Olympics, this guy was still grinding away in the pool. He pushed himself so hard in practice that his goggles would sometimes break! There's this amazing moment where his goggles filled with water during an Olympic race, but because he'd practiced so intensely - even in the worst conditions - he didn't panic. He just thought, "I've been here before," and kept swimming.

Or take Michael Jordan - instead of obsessing over what his competitors were doing, he focused on being so good that they had to worry about him! As his trainer Tim Grover put it, Jordan didn't study the competition - he made the competition study him.

The secret sauce? It's about consistently working on getting better at what matters most in your field. This could mean dedicating time each day to reading up on your industry, soaking up knowledge from podcasts, finding mentors who've been there and done that, getting those important certifications, and sharing what you learn with others. It's like building a muscle - you've got to keep at it regularly to see results.

Remember this: those moments of hard work when nobody's watching? That's what transforms you from good to great. As Phelps said, "It's what you do in the dark that brings you to light."


Mozart Birthplace- Salzburg

-Karthik Gurumurthy

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Let me tell you about the coolest house in Salzburg - where little Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart first opened his eyes and probably started humming tunes right away! 🎵

Located on this charming street called Getreidegasse (at No. 9, if you're looking for it), this bright yellow building is where the musical genius was born in 1756. It's not just some fancy museum now - it's literally the actual apartment where baby Mozart lived with his family until he was 17! Talk about living history, right?

The best part? They've kept it super authentic. You can walk through the actual rooms where little Mozart took his first steps, probably drove his parents crazy practicing violin, and started composing music that would blow people's minds for centuries to come. There's his first violin (aww!), his concert violin, his clavichord (like a tiny piano), and even some locks of his hair (okay, maybe a bit creepy, but cool!).

Fun stuff you'll see:

  • His teeny-tiny child-sized violin 🎻
  • Family letters that show Mozart wasn't always the angelic child in those portraits
  • Original documents and portraits
  • The actual size of rooms back then (spoiler: they're cozier than you'd think!)

Recommendation: The place gets PACKED with Mozart fans from all over the world, so try to visit early in the morning. And don't forget to grab some Mozart chocolates (those little round balls with marzipan) from one of the shops nearby - they're basically a required snack when visiting Mozart's hood!

Want to feel extra fancy? You can attend one of the concerts they sometimes hold in the building. Just imagine listening to Mozart's music in the same place where he first learned to play! 🎹


Concert at Schloss Konzerte Mirabell, Salzburg-Vienna


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-Karthik Gurumurthy

Let me tell you about this absolutely magical concert venue in Salzburg - imagine getting to hear Mozart's music in the same stunning marble hall where Mozart himself used to perform! ✨

The Marble Hall (Marmorsaal) in Mirabell Palace is like stepping into a baroque fairy tale. It was originally built as a fancy place for the prince-archbishops to show off, but now it's one of the most beautiful concert halls you'll ever see. We're talking ornate marble everywhere, these gorgeous ceiling frescoes, and the kind of acoustics that make every note feel like it's dancing in the air!

Fun stuff about this place:

  • It's actually where the von Trapp kids from "The Sound of Music" sang "Do-Re-Mi" (well, part of it anyway!)
  • Still has the original marble from the 1700s (talk about lasting quality!)
  • Hosts these amazing classical concerts almost every day
  • The acoustics are so perfect you can hear every tiny musical detail

Pro tips:

  • Book tickets in advance (this place is POPULAR)
  • Get there early to snag the best seats
  • Bring a light jacket (those marble walls keep things cool)
  • The palace gardens outside are perfect for a pre-concert stroll

Fun fact: The palace survived a city fire in 1818, but the staircase and marble hall were pretty much untouched. Even natural disasters know not to mess with perfection! 🎵

There's nothing quite like hearing Mozart in a place where he actually performed! 🎹


Positive attitude

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Contentment comes from having a positive attitude. It means

  • Expecting the best in everything-
  • Remaining upbeat- even when you get beat up.
  • Seeing solutions in every problem- not problems in every solution.
  • Believing in yourself-even when others believe you've failed.
  • Holding on to hope- even when others say it's hopeless.

Your circumstances and your contentment are not related.


Good news

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Yesterday I got updates  from three of my students. By God's grace and their deliberate and persistent hardwork,  One got into UPenn, another one to Columbia and the third got into Cornell.  I wasn't surprised by these updates as all of them worked really hard to make this happen. Cascais

 


Learning agility

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis shared yesterday in HBR about how to be an agile learner. 

What is learning agility?

Learning agility is the skill of learning from experiences so you can succeed in new situations. For example, a leader with learning agility can successfully transfer their talents across different parts of an organization. And individuals with high learning agility become the trusted “go-tos” for high-profile projects and high-impact positions. An agile learner can successfully navigate two different types of newness: complex work with no blueprint and situations where they have no previous experience. Where some people struggle with the high levels of ambiguity that newness creates, agile learners take advantage of the opportunity and succeed in situations where other people might stall.

Agile learners are adept at empathizing with and even anticipating different perspectives. By putting themselves in other people’s shoes, they can connect dots, spot and resolve potential conflicts, and zoom out to see the bigger picture. Rather than waiting to be told a different point of view or that something won’t work, agile learners seek out dissenting opinions and are open-minded in their approach. 

Agile learners have high levels of self-awareness. They understand their impact and seek insight on how they can improve. They are specific about the support they need and confident enough to ask for help from others so they can be at their best. They see learning as a constant and are proactively curious about the world around them, borrowing brilliance from different people and places.

Questions to ask ourselves about our learning agility:

  • How often do I work on something for the first time?
  • When have I spent time in my courage zone (i.e., doing something I find “scary”) over the past three months?
  • How do I respond when priorities and plans change without warning?
  • Who do I have conversations with to learn about people and teams I have limited knowledge of?
  • How confident am I in high-challenge conversations, where people have different points of view?
  • How much cognitive diversity (i.e., people who bring a variety of different experiences, perspectives) do I have in my career community?
  • How do I feel about asking for the help I need to succeed?
  • Where do my strengths have the most impact in the work that I do?
  • How frequently do I ask for feedback on what I do well, and how I could improve my impact?

 

 


SAT Update- Aarathi

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Another exciting update from Aarathi. Aarathi's score improved tremendously in her November exam as compared to August. I am so happy for her as she worked hard to constantly improve and adapt. Wishing her grand success to get admitted to school of her choice.


SAT Update- Sreesh

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Got an update from Sreesh few minutes back that he got a perfect score in Math and 760 in the English section of SAT. This was not a surprise at all as he was working hard, being consistent and did everything I recommended. Success is predictable. Thank you, God, for all your Blessings.


Nobel Prize award Chemistry-2023

-Karthik Gurumurthy 

The Nobel Prize in Chemistry for this year was awarded jointly to three scientists who revolutionized the field by discovering and developing quantum dots:

  • Moungi G. Bawendi: American, received his Ph.D. in Chemistry from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1993. He currently serves as the Lester Wolfe Professor of Chemistry at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.
  • Louis E. Brus: American, earned his Ph.D. in Chemistry from the University of California, Berkeley in 1972. He continues to work as the Samuel Ruben and Dorothy P. Ruben Professor of Chemistry at Columbia University.
  • Aleksey Yekimov: Russian, obtained his Ph.D. in Physics from the A.F. Ioffe Physical Technical Institute in 1980. He is currently the Head of the Laboratory of Semiconductor Nanostructures at the St. Petersburg State University.

Their Contributions:

These three laureates were jointly recognized for their pioneering work on quantum dots, tiny semiconductor particles with unique optical and electronic properties. Their independent discoveries and subsequent advancements in synthesizing and manipulating these particles opened up a wide range of potential applications across various fields.

  • Bawendi revolutionized the chemical production of quantum dots, making them brighter, more stable, and easier to control, paving the way for their widespread use.
  • Brus was one of the first researchers to synthesize quantum dots and played a crucial role in understanding their physical and chemical properties.
  • Yekimov independently discovered quantum dots and made significant contributions to elucidating their unique optical behavior.

Their collective work on quantum dots has had a profound impact on diverse fields, and their ongoing research holds immense promise for future advancements in various technologies, from energy generation and healthcare to electronics and communications.


Annie L' Huillier-Nobel Prize Physics 2023

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Annie L'Huillier was unreachable on the morning of the 2023 Nobel Prize in Physics.

The Royal Swedish Academy of Sciences tried reaching L'Huillier to tell her she was one of the 2023 physics laureates. However, her phone kept going to voicemail.

Luckily, they were able to reach L'Huillier's husband. He explained that she was teaching a class on atomic physics, but she would have only a very short break just before the announcement.

During the break, L'Huillier picked up her phone and received the news about the physics prize, but she cut the call short to return to her students. Before going back to class, she turned her phone off again.

When she returned to the class, she told the students she would have to finish a few minutes early but did not give a reason.

L'Huillier ended the lecture only five minutes before the 11:45 physics announcement and left the room. Suspicious, her students decided to stay and watch the physics livestream in the lecture hall.

When L'Huillier's name was announced, her students broke into cheers. Annie L'Huillier's dedication to her students and her passion for teaching atomic physics is truly admirable. Her students must have been thrilled to witness their teacher's moment of recognition during the Nobel Prize announcement. It's a testament to her commitment to education and her contributions to the field of physics.

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Anne L'Huillier teaching her atomic physics class on 3 October; Anne L'Huillier taking a call with Nobel Prize Outreach on 3 October; Anne L'Huillier's atomic physics class cheering as her name is announced during the 2023 physics announcement.


SAT Update: Alex

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Alex C got a perfect score (1600) in SAT. Not surprising at all. I have been working with him last 1.5 years and he was consistent in his preparation despite his summer internship. Winners find a way to make it happen. 


Career in Science

-Karthik Gurumurthy

This is a personal message from 2022 chemistry laureate Carolyn Bertozzi to all young researchers on why to aspire for a career in science:

”I would want to share with them how a life in science is incredibly rewarding. It is rewarding because it is creating. You are discovering knowledge and gifting that to humanity for all of prosperity. Because once you learn something no one can take that way. It is not an object. It is in intellectual currency that will be shared throughout the generations. And you created that. It has a permanency that ironically a physical object doesn’t have. You can paint a painting, but eventually it will fade. But knowledge doesn’t fade. Knowledge stays with us forever and it becomes the foundation for the next generations.”

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Remembering Marie Curie

-Karthik Gurumurthy

89 years back, the world lost one of the greatest scientists:: Marie Skłodowska Curie.

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Curie dedicated her life to science. She was the first woman to be awarded a Nobel Prize, the first person to be awarded twice and is still the only person to receive the prize in two different scientific fields.

 


Take your Best shot

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Lovely, authentic, humorous, inspirational  and insightful commencement speech by star tennis player John McEnroe at Stanford. He talked about the epic Wimbledon Championship match in 1980. Though he gave everything he had, he lost to Borg in 5 sets, 1–6, 7–5, 6–3, 6–7(16–18), 8–6. He said: "I once had the privilege of meeting the great Nelson Mandela. He told me he listened to that match on a tiny radio from his prison cell on Robben Island, and that the whole prison hung on every point of that match. That we get, we gave Mandela a brief respite from the excruciating hell of 27 years of political imprisonment meant more to me than any award I've ever won."

So winning isn't everything. The journey and the effort were more important.

You can listen to the whole speech here.


Nuggets from Dr. Ghez

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Ghez was born in New York City in 1965 and grew up with a passion for science and math. After earning degrees in physics and astronomy at MIT and Caltech, she began studying the stars at the W. M. Keck Observatory in Hawaii.

It was there that Ghez made her most significant discovery: using a technique called adaptive optics, she was able to capture the first-ever images of the black hole at the center of our galaxy. This breakthrough helped confirm the existence of black holes and opened up new avenues of research into their properties and behavior.

Ghez has continued to push the boundaries of our understanding of the universe, using innovative techniques to study the motion of stars and other celestial bodies. She has received numerous awards and honors for her groundbreaking work, including the prestigious MacArthur "Genius" Fellowship and the Nobel Prize in Physics in 2020.

But perhaps most importantly, Ghez has served as a role model and mentor for countless young women and girls interested in pursuing careers in science and technology. Her dedication, intelligence, and passion for discovery are an inspiration to all of us.

Did you know that Astronomer Andrea Ghez is the 4th woman to ever receive a Nobel Prize in Physics for her work on the supermassive black hole at the center of the Milky Way? 

 


Breaking Free from the Golden Handcuffs: A Journey to Authentic Success"

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Let me share my perspective on redefining success and the tension between societal expectations and personal fulfillment:

I see this play out in my own circle constantly.  Take my college friend Michael, a gifted teacher who left education for investment banking because, as he put it, 'You can't be considered successful teaching for $45,000 a year"

Take my friend Satish Viswanathan, who  lives a life many would consider 'unconventional.' He left a six-figure Microsoft job to start an organization called 'Munnetram' to teach accounting to financially challenged kids in India. By society's typical measures - salary, status, career trajectory - he took a step backward. But when you see him working with his students, there's an unmistakable authenticity in his joy that no paycheck could match.

I have noticed this in a few family gatherings, where the first questions are always about promotions and purchases - 'Did you get that senior management position?' or 'When are you buying a second home?' It reminds me of how we've reduced life's scorecard to numbers in a bank account. Lot of times I have noticed calling someone 'a surgeon who makes a lot of money' rather than 'a surgeon who saves lives,' we've somehow made the paycheck more important than the purpose.

What's particularly striking is how our society's definition of success has become so narrowly focused on financial rewards. I've watched colleagues chase promotions they didn't want, to buy things they didn't need, to impress people they didn't care about. We've reduced 'successful' to mean simply 'well paid.'

Personally for me , the most inspiring examples I've seen are people like Satish  who've redefined success on their own terms. Like my cousin, Anand ((who is no more) who turned down a Senior Management Consultant role position to help underprivileged kids in a village.

Society might see above examples as lacking ambition, but his impact on others' lives is immeasurable.

The real wisdom I've found is in understanding that true success emerges from that mysterious chemistry of abilities, passion, hard work, and commitment. It's not something that can be measured by a bank statement or validated by others' approval. It's deeply personal and often looks different from what society expects.

 The most profound learning for me has been understanding that success is a very peculiar kind of noun.Unlike a chair or a tree, it doesn't have a fixed form. True courage isn't just in choosing an unconventional path, but in taking full ownership of how we define success for ourselves. It's about acknowledging that success is 'whatever we decide to call success' - and having the strength to stand by that definition even when it doesn't align with society's current fashion. This perspective has fundamentally changed how I view both success and failure. When I see someone living authentically, even if it means living modestly, I recognize a kind of success that's far more valuable than any external measure could capture.

 


The Why?

-Karthik Gurumurthy

I am thankful and blessed to work with talented students who brings the best out of me and I try to do the same as well for them. There are times where things don't go the way they wanted and get upset.

When you get frustrated and want to give up, or maybe ask yourself “what am I doing” or “why am I doing this” always remember there’s more to what you’re doing than just the immediate results that you can see. When you get frustrated and think “why am I doing this?” I hope you’ll remember that some of the reasons you’re doing what you’re doing you will never fully realize because the impact that you’re making cannot be fully measured, or even recognized in this life. I hope this message encourages you to do one more thing one more time; plant one more seed one more time.   See the best that is ahead of you not the worst that is behind you or around you. 

Life is full of distractions, disappointments, and defeat … but life is also full of opportunities, victories, excitement and hope if we focus on what we want next not on what we have now. When you get frustrated read this message or even better write your own message of hope, excitement and anticipation. When we have our final conversation and take our final breath hopefully we will be proud of ourselves. Not an arrogant, egotistical kind of pride … but a peaceful acknowledgement that we fought the good fight and did not give up.

We should never give up regardless of how hard or how long the race is because we may be the only reason that others don’t give up. When we finish our race we should be at peace knowing that we overcame challenges and distractions and made a positive difference in the world. 

Our patience and perseverance may be the lifeline and the example that keeps another person from giving up on their dreams. The seeds that we plant today will provide comfort for others today and may provide comfort for others generations from now. Keep planting good seeds, expecting a good harvest. Be the best example you can possibiy be.


Relationships

-Karthik Gurumurthy

“In some of our relationships, we might experience a complete emotional dependency on someone. We spend irrational amounts of time thinking of other person’s needs, opinions and feelings. Our own priorities get cornered, as we give complete control of our emotions and decisions to them.

We even start relying on them to feel loved, and this is unhealthy for both of us.

Have you ever felt your mind getting emotionally attached to someone? Does someone constantly live on your mind? And do you get disturbed with the slightest change in that person’s behavior?

Our emotional dependence on people is riskier than we realize, and it can turn into a deep addiction. When the mind becomes attached to someone’s behaviors, we will need them to be our way. We constantly seek their love, presence, opinions and approval. Not getting even one of these makes us insecure.

We are actually emotionally powerful. We need nothing from anyone. Let us be with people for who they are, not because they can offer emotional comfort.

This is true to some extent. I attend to people neglecting my own interests. I don't do it for approval. 

Maybe, being the eldest child I was instructed differently. I was always a big brother. The eldest child of my parents. Probably they made me make others a priority. Always. Though they never actually said it.  Usually, I don't like to disappoint people. So I become the 'go to' person for all duties and responsibilities.


What's the root cause?

-Karthik Gurumurthy

I am fortunate to work with young adults in helping them in Prep for SAT/ACT / MCAT tests.  I am also work with organizations in their Agile transformation efforts as an Enterprise Agile Coach. Even though the work involved is totally different, I see a parallel in both the roles.

Sometimes when the results are different from what's expected, we pause and find out what is the root cause of the issue?

Why don’t people perform? It is almost always for one of these reasons:

1. They don’t know what to do.

2. They don’t know how to do it.

3. They don’t want to do it.

4. They can’t do it.

Expectation without proper education equals frustration. Good leaders have the ability to assess abilities. An effective leader knows both what a person is capable of and what training and the education they need to succeed.

But training and development aren’t a panacea. If you’ve got the right person in the wrong role they won’t succeed.

Specifically, it is a matter of fit. The person fits the role. It isn’t an exact science, an either/or. However, when someone who is conscientious struggles performing even after they’ve receive the necessary training, it is likely a fit problem.

Are the right students in the right classrooms and even in the right seats? Are you assuming a student is a poor performer when in reality, her or she is just in the wrong classroom?

Willingness and ability aren’t the same thing. Understanding the nuances of people and performance are an important skill for leaders.


Before the game is over

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Before the game of life is over,  I want to know I have done someting truly great, that I have made a positive impact of people who worked with me. I do not aspire to become as wealthy as Jeff Bezos, as famous as Napoleon and conquer many nations, but I do want above all else, to feel that I have been an addition to this world of ours. I should like the world, or at least my native land, to be proud of me and to sit up and take notice when my name is pronounced and say, "There is a man who had done a great thing." I do not want to have passed through life as just another speck of humanity, just another cog in this amazing world. I want to be something greater, far greater, than that. My desire is not so much for immortality as for distinction while I am alive. When I I leave this world, I want to know that my life has not been in vain, but that I have, in the course of my existence, done something of which I am rightfully proud. Success to me is how many people are better off because I lived (quoting Bill Britt).

Before the game is over, I want to know that during my life I have brought great happiness to others. Friendship is one of the best things to the world, and I want to have many friends. But I could never die fully contented unless I knew that those with whom I had been intimate had gained real happiness from their friendship with me.  We all want much happiness in our lives, and giving it to others is one of the surest ways to achieve it for ourselves.

Before the game is over I want to have visited a large portion of the globe and to have actually lived with several foreign races in their own environment. By traveling in countries other than my own I hope to broaden and improve my outlook on life so that I can get a deeper and more complete satisfaction from living. 

Before the game is over, I would like to live life to the fullest giving my best everyday.


1:1 Conversations

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Whenever we meet friends or family, we make it a point to meet one family at a time. We try our best not to meet many families at the same time.Sometimes due to time constraints we might have done it but we try not to do that anymore. We seldom invite anyone for the sake of meeting them but we always wanted to give them undivided attention.

There’s nothing quite like it to unburden yourself. To know that you are being listened to. To feel that you are special. Many a memory is made up of meaningful conversations with significant others.Everyone has a special story to tell and I have learned a lot from the 1:1 conversations as opposed to having many extroverts completely take over the conversation and you never get to hear from the quieter people who wanted to share a useful nugget or a funny situation.

It is at these times that we learn to still ourselves to listen to the other. To give him/ her the gift of our undivided attention. It is when we learn how our lives can make a difference to other lives.

If we pay more attention to others, someday, in the future, someone will tell us how our attention and words made a difference.

 


Greetings!!

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Good morning, Good night, All the best … Sometimes greetings become mere words, without any feelings created. We can wish people perfectly with an All the best, even though internally we doubt their ability.

Greetings are not mere words but high-energy blessings, where we firmly believe only nice things should happen with the other person.( nowadays people greet with words like morning,night omitting the word good forgetting it is used for a reason).But at times, we say it so casually that it remains a phrase, with no feelings attached.

Greet everyone enthusiastically when you meet them ,it is an opportunity to create and radiate pure energy.
Radiate goodness to everyone, every time. Even if someone does not acknowledge, sustain your beautiful quality.”

 


Nobel Prize award Chemistry-2022

-Karthik Gurumurthy

This year, the Nobel Prize in Chemistry was once again awarded to three scientists, all of whom contributed significantly to the field of "click chemistry" and bioorthogonal chemistry:

  • Carolyn R. Bertozzi: American, received her Ph.D. in Chemistry from UC Berkeley in 1993. Currently, she holds the Anne T. and Robert M. Bass Professorship at Stanford University and is an Investigator at the Howard Hughes Medical Institute.
  • Morten Meldal: Danish, earned his Ph.D. in Chemistry from the Technical University of Denmark in 1986. He is presently a Professor at the University of Copenhagen.
  • K. Barry Sharpless: American, obtained his Ph.D. in Chemistry from Stanford University in 1968. He continues to serve as the W. M. Keck Professor at Scripps Research in La Jolla, California. Interestingly, this was Sharpless' second Nobel Prize in Chemistry, making him only the fifth person to achieve this feat.

These three individuals were jointly recognized for their groundbreaking work on "click chemistry," a concept developed by Sharpless that involves creating simple and reliable chemical reactions for joining molecules together. Bertozzi further expanded this concept by developing "bioorthogonal reactions" that can occur inside living organisms, paving the way for studying biological processes at the molecular level. Their combined efforts revolutionized chemical synthesis and offered powerful tools for drug discovery, diagnostics, and other applications.

  • Sharpless laid the foundation for click chemistry by identifying key principles for fast and efficient reactions with minimal side-products.
  • Meldal independently discovered an essential click reaction involving cycloaddition, demonstrating its versatility and expanding its potential applications.
  • Bertozzi took click chemistry from the lab to living organisms by developing bioorthogonal reactions that work specifically within biological systems. This enabled her to map important molecules on cell surfaces and develop tools for targeting cancer cells.

 


Greatness, Competitiveness and Friendship

-Karthik Gurumurthy

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I love this picture not just they are tennis fiercest rivals of all time. To see your greatest rival cry tears of sadness is the ultimate respect. There will never be another rivalry like this duo.Two men demonstrating the strength to be authentic. To be truly as you are, where you are. It's so obvious what this moment means to these two. Their powerful emotions clearly, courageously on display for all to see. How often do we hold ourselves back from being our authentic selves because we feel "it's not allowed." When was the last time you felt strong enough to be authentic?  It disrupts and destroys all myths about masculinity, competition and vulnerability.Being vulnerable in front of others always shows one's inner strength and character. 

Men are expected not to cry.
Men are expected to be tough.
Men are expected to destroy the competition.

Nothing about the raw emotion of Roger Federer and Rafael Nadal follows any of those outdated, damaging and dangerous rules of toxic masculinity.

They are openly crying.
They are holding hands.
They are competitors on the court and compassionate comrades who respect and revere one another.

Possessing both masculine and feminine traits is the sign of an evolved person. This really warms my heart.

And I hope that we are continuing to move towards a world that evolves beyond the gender binary "masculine" and "feminine"; one that isn't so desperately set on putting people into boxes and telling them that who they are, what they feel, who they love and how they live is "wrong" or "right" based on how the world has gendered them.

Until then, I implore more and more leaders to show up fully in all of their *human* traits — regardless of gender — so we can embrace, learn from and love them wholly.  Bow and respect to both Federer and Nadal..


Greatest of all time: Roger Federer!

-Karthik Gurumurthy

Few people in this world set such a high example for character, class, sportsmanship and pure love for the game of tennis. It was a pleasure watching you compete all these years and you are true definition of an amazing human being on and off the court. Even RF's Retirement Speech will become one of the Greatest Retirement Speeches of All Time! You will be missed, Roger!!

RogerFederer

"I am 41 years old. I have played more than 1500 matches over 24 years. Tennis has treated me more generously than I ever would have dreamt, and now I must recognize when it is time to end my competitive career.”- 20 time Grand Slam champion Roger Federer who announced his retirement from tennis"- Roger Federer

 


Focus

-Karthik Gurumurthy

When you focus on the "Problems", your "Goal" will stop appearing, and

when you focus on the "Goal", your "problems" will stop appearing.

The Sun is shining on the day so brightly so your day is  also going to shine the same way. Let us focus on the right stuff.

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